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Sexual Games

Honey, I love you

    One fun game is called `Honey, I love you'. Everyone sits in a
    circle, and one person is `it'. The idea is for `It' to make
    someone laugh. He does this by picking someone in the circle,
    sitting on their lap, and saying `Honey, I love you. If you love
    me, smile'. The other person has to reply `Honey, I love you, but
    I just can't smile', and if they smile, laugh, or otherwise show
    happiness, they become `it', and the game continues. In the
    version I play, they have to perform a forfeit as well.

    Well, we tend to play it like this:
    you keep track of how many forfeits each person has done.
    The first time, they have to do one from section 1, the second
    time, from section 2, and so on. But nobody can ever lag more
    than 3 behind the leader, so if someone's on section 5 when you do
    your first one, you start with section 2. Oh, and by section 8,
    you might as well forget the game.

    If you fail on a forfeit (eg. chew your fruit pastille, etc.),
    perform another forfeit.

    Section 1 [Easy]
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    1 Touch your toes.
    2 Do a handstand.
    3 Dance with a nominated person in the room.
    4 Pull a funny face [preferably your own!].
    5 Tell a joke.
    6 Do an impression of a farmyard animal.
    7 Do a forward roll.
    8 Name the last three novels you read.
    9 Divide a shuffled pack of cards into reds and blacks in
       30 seconds or less.
    10 Recite the alphabet backwards without making any mistakes.

    Section 2 [Some skill, minimal embarrassment]
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    1 Sing a song.
    2 Raise one eyebrow without moving the other one.
    3 Tell everyone the colour of your underwear.
    4 List ten things to do with a cucumber.
    5 Eat a doughnut without licking your lips.
    6 Do an impression of a TV personality.
    7 Put a Rowntree's Fruit Pastille in your mouth without chewing it.
       [This can take a long time. Best to nominate someone to watch them
        while the game goes on].
    8 List the days of the week in alphabetical order in 20
       seconds or less.
       (answer: Friday Monday Saturday Sunday Thursday Tuesday Wednesday)
    9 Roll your tongue, and perform another forfeit if you can't.
    10 Lift someone in the room chosen by the group.

    Section 3 [Embarrassing or sexual-but-not-too-personal, no contact]
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    1 Describe your most embarrassing experience.
    2 Describe a non-sexual fantasy.
    3 Describe a characteristic that you would like to have but don't [or
       one that you have but don't want!]
    4 Describe a characteristic that you wish someone else in the room had.
    5 Tell a smutty joke.
    6 Outstare someone of your choice.
    7 Answer a non-sexual question from the group.
    8 Use a condom in a non-sexual way.
    9 Talk for thirty seconds about lingerie without saying the word `silk'
       and without hesitating.
    10 Talk for thirty seconds about pornography without hesitating and
       without using the word `magazine'.

    Section 4 [Sexual, mildly personal or contact]
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    1 Spend twenty seconds (or so!) cuddling a MOS of your choice who is not
       your SO.
    2 Pick a MOS and spend twenty seconds (or so!) playing with their hair.
    3 Eat a banana in a provocative manner.
    4 Which of the following objects do you find most phallic, and why?
            o Tom Tower
            o A banana
            o The Space Shuttle
            o A Coke bottle
            o A shower hose
            o Anything else you can think of
    5 Name (or describe) three sexual positions.
    6 Describe (or show) the sexiest item of underwear you possess.
    7 Keep a straight face for ten seconds while someone tickles your feet.
    8 Spend twenty seconds showing off your best physical characteristic.
    9 Talk for thirty seconds about your body without hesitating.
    10 Talk for thirty seconds about your idea of a perfect MOS body without
       hesitating.

    Section 5 [Sexual and personal / embarrassing]
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    1 Describe a sexual fantasy.
    2 Rank the MOSs in the room by their bums.
    3 Rank the MOSs in the room by their legs.
    4 Rank the MOSs in the room by their chests.
    5 Rank the MOSs in the room (not your SO) by how good you think they
       would be at kissing. [No experimentation!]
    6 Spend a minute giving a MOS a back rub.
    7 Describe something you find attractive about a MOS in the room [not SO]
    8 Educate the room about the facts of life. You may not assume any
       prior knowledge of the subject.
    9 Describe what underwear you *usually* wear.
    10 Pick a MOS and pose for a photograph in a compromising position with them.

    Section 6 [Sexual, tough, personal]
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    1F Remove your bra without unfastening anything on your outer clothes.
    1M Remove your trousers for at least three rounds.
    2 Disclose the colour of your underwear, and prove it.
    3 Guess the colour of a MOS's underwear, and verify it. [Not someone
       you already know from another forfeit!]
    4 Spend thirty seconds kissing a MOS (not your SO!)
    5 Educate the room about safe sex. You may use any readily available
       materials [provided the owner is willing!] but may not assume any prior
       knowledge.
    6 Spend thirty seconds nibbling a MOS's ear, or have them nibble yours
       for thirty seconds.
    7 With a blindfold on, and your hands tied behind your back, kiss three
       MOSs and then say who was who.
    8 Pick a MOS and demonstrate a sexual position [basics only!]
    9 Spend thirty seconds fondling the (clothed!) legs of a MOS.
    10 Uncover your back completely, pick a MOS, and have them give you a
       backrub for a minute.

    Section 7
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    1M Rank the women in the room by how attractive you think their breasts
       are.
    1F Rank the men in the room by how well endowed you think they are.
    2 Rank the MOSs in the room by how good you think they are at kissing.
       Verify your top two choices.
    3 Have the members of the opposite sex draw straws, and spend a minute
       french kissing one of them.
    4 Spend thirty seconds fondling the (clothed) chest/torso region and/or
       bum of a MOS.
    5 Spend one minute fondling the bare legs of a MOS.
    6 Remove all your outer clothes for the rest of the game.
    7 Remove all your clothes so that one MOS can see you.
    8 Moon.
    9 Educate the room about oral sex. You may use any readily available
       materials [provided the owner is willing!] but may not assume any
       prior knowledge.
    10 Have a MOS remove an item of your clothing.

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     Starting with section 8, you may choose your SO as a MOS.
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    Section 8
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    1 Have the members of your own sex draw straws, and spend a minute
       french kissing one of them.
    2 Same as 7.1, but verify.
    3 Spend thirty seconds fondling the (covered) genitals of a MOS.
    4 Spend one minute fondling the bare chest/torso region and/or bum of a
       MOS.
    5 Remove all your outer clothes for the rest of the game; if you are
       already down to your underwear, remove it for the rest of the game.
    6 Fake an orgasm, optionally using a MOS.

    Section 9
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    1 Look at three women's breasts and then identify them while
       blindfolded.
    2 Look at three penises and then identify them while blindfolded.
    3 Spend one minute fondling the uncovered genitals of a MOS.
    4 Pick two other people in the room, and spend one minute in a
       threesome.
    5 Spend a minute tied down while a MOS uses you for their satisfaction.
    6 Spend a minute playing the role of the opposite gender in love
       making.

    Section 10
    ----------
    1 Look at three women's breasts and then identify them while
       blindfolded, only using your mouth and tongue.
    2 Look at three penises and then identify them while blindfolded, only
       using your mouth and tongue.
    3 Spend one minute attending to a MOS's sexual satisfaction, with no
       thought of your own.
    4 Spend thirty seconds playing with yourself in view of the rest of the
       room.
    5 Spend thirty seconds giving a MOS oral sex.
    6 Have a MOS spend thirty seconds fondling your uncovered genitals,
       during which time you must remain perfectly still and quiet.

Truth or Dare
    Sara B. writes: "Truth and Dare is my favorite. Keep the Truth
        questions sexually oriented, and have Dare slips. The initial
        Dare slips can be pretty light-weight, with more significant
        stuff later. If someone doesn't take a Truth, they get a Dare.
        If someone's Truth is not believed (you think he/she lied) or
        if the Dare is refused or failed, there is a Punishment.
        Initial Punishments would be taking off items of clothing.
        Once all of someone's clothing is removed, the Punishment
        slips should become more interesting, i.e. sexual favors."

        "Have lots of fun. This is actually a game for 3 or more
        people, with the more the merrier. An example Dare might be,
        "Suck 3 women's nipples while blindfolded, and then say who's
        nipples were whose. Don't touch the women." It's considered
        inappropriate to refuse on grounds of sexual orientation, but
        you could always have your own rules."

Naked Twister
    Several people has mentioned this, variations included using
    various oils. [sounds like fun!] I have never tried this and no one
    gave any rules. I expect that the rules are simply if you fall
    down, you have to remove a piece of clothing. Once naked,
    appropiate 'punishment' could be decided.

Stephen W. suggested "Well the old stand by of passing objects amongs
    people other than using hands can get pretty erotic when people
    are in the right mood."

Michael A F. is party animal: "We play naked twister, strip trival
    pursuit, strip poker, and have the wives dance for dollar bills in
    the underwear."

Someone sent this:
    "There are a couple that I can think of that are pretty fun. The
    first requires you to kind of already be close to a person (having
    at least had foreplay once or twice). That being:

    The rules are simple, you and your so (or not so so) sit/stand/lay
    as close to each other as possible without touching or kissing,
    but rather trying to deny the other the satisfaction of knowing
    you have no control. All the while you're in ther face whispering
    really erotic things that you will do to them if they give in. No
    touching, but you try and get as close to it as possible. Or if
    there is touching, just no kissing or touching of anything sexual.
    You build up an incredible tension if this goes on for a good 15
    20 minutes and at then end, when someone finally gives in, you
    don't care who won. :)

    Another is sort of a related game in which one person is given 1
    minute to get a "raise" out of the other (for guys its easier to
    tell, so I lost a lot of the time) by kissing, or heavy petting
    (over the cloths), The first person tolose has to do what the
    other wants first (i never minded losing, but sometimes its better
    to receive than give)

    Of course if all else fails you can just buy a couple packs of
    different gums and them kiss her until she guessed which flavor it
    is...but thats not much of a game."

Mr. SD A. sent these jems:
I have never
    Person A says:
    I have never X (for example: I have never had made love in public)
    all those who have done what person A has never done are either asked
    a TRUTH or given a DARE by person A

    The truths or dares should be done quickly so the game doesn't
    bog down if A can't think of anything they should just pass.

    Person B says:
    I have never....

TRUTH or DARE version 1.1
    This is the standard truth or dare game,
        i.e A asks a randomly designated person if they want to tell a
        truth or perform a dare; A once getting the response then asks
        the truth or sets the dare.

    This is the innovation: there are three cards face down 2 aces & a
        Joker works fine B (who is being asked) selects a card if B
        selects an Ace things proceed as normal if however Bselects
        the Joker the truth or dare rebounds onto A...

    This has one of two effects, it either Keeps A honest or frees A
    to be really dangerous as A doesn't have to feel bad about being
    too daring.

Spin the bottle
    A spins the bottle, does something previously decided or totally
    random to the person the bottle points to...

Bartok
    From Craig A.:

    Basic idea: 52 cards, 5 each, play goes to left, playing cards on
    same suit or rank, with one card left declare "Bartok" or other
    players make you draw 5 cards. Also draw one card for asking a
    question or breaking other rules (developed later). Winner is
    first player to have no cards left. Winner of each round declares
    a new rule, rules are cumulative...

    "Normal Rules" : certain cards are:
        Wild - change suit
        reverse play
        skip next player
        force next player to draw 2
        enforce all players to be silent until play of another card
        can't play spades on prime numbered cards
        Must quote from a movie/book/comedian
        swap chairs with someone else

    "Advanced Rules" : play of a particular card may require you to
        hug the person to your left
        kiss the person next to you
        remove an article of clothing
        remove someone else's piece of clothing and keep/wear it
        tie up the person to your right
        masturbate yourself/another player
        perform oral sex on someone for x minutes/until your next turn

    The beuty of this game is that it can begin fairly tamely and rapidly
    progress to any extent, limited only by your imagination.

Randall P. writes:
    Get a group of people who are willing to get together, say once a
    week for several weeks. Best is couples, but you could revise if
    there are singles in the group.

    First time everyone gets together you are only allowed to touch
    yourself, blindfolded. Basically everyone gets themself off and
    you hear but do not see.

    Second time is the same, only you remove your blindfold.
    third time you are allowed to only touch others
    fourth time you can kiss
    fifth time you can lick
    then suck
    insert body parts into body parts

    Real fun bringing in new players. Whole group can do it all, but the
    newcomer can only touch self, blindfolded and group can do nothing. Next
    time blind fold comes off. Next new person can touch and be
    touched by others, etc.

    I think you get the idea. If everyone is in a hurry, you can make
    the steps every 15-30 minutes, change the steps, etc.

John F. suggests scavenger hunts:
    My girlfriend and I like to send each other on 'scavenger hunts.'
    When each clue is figured out, a command is given to the person on
    the hunt. When that command is completed successfully, we move to
    the next command. With enough imagination, the commands can be
    REALLY fun! I guess you can figure what the prize at the end
    usually is...

Deprivation
    Someone anonymous sent:
    A game that's good for breaking the ice, although it's not
    explicitly sexual, is "Deprivation":

    The goal of the game is to show that one's self is the most
    "deprived" person in the group.

    Seat everyone in a circle. If there are N people, give each of
    them N counters -- matchsticks or playing cards work well. Now,
    each person in turn proposes a manner in which they have been
    deprived by saying "I have never done X." (Players are on their
    honor to tell the truth.) Each person who *has* done X then has
    to give one counter to the player who made the statement. This
    goes around and around. Eventually, one person runs out of
    counters, at which time he has to drop out of the game, and each
    person remaining gives up two (yes, two) counters. (This may
    cause further drop-outs.) (Thus the number of counters remaining
    in the game is appropriate for the number of players remaining.)

    Last person left in wins.

    Toward the end of the game, people start to get greedy to win and
    their inhibitions about what they will claim to be deprived of
    drop.

An anonymous reply said:

    If someone *really* wants an ice-breaker, and is willing to skip
    the facade of playing a game, but would like somethign similar
    then may I humbly suggest:

    If only couples are involved: Take turns playing one-upsmanship.
    Couple #1 goes first, couple #2 attempts to "outdo" couple #1, and
    so on... In an open situation "outdo" could involve actions on
    other people/couples. No rules, no cards, no dice.

    If any singles are involved: Not fair to team up singles as
    couples, either... Player #1 suggests "activity" for any two other
    players... those two players get to define an "activity" for
    player #1. If the pair complete their task, then player 1 must
    complete his/her task. His/her task need not be a solo act.
    "Play" then rotates to a volunteer from the pair, or the next
    person alphabetically.

    Interesting variation on the couples game... Swap partners, play
    as usual. <evil grin> "I can't believe you did that!!! Okay,
    then... watch *this*!" Amazing how the "game" escalates much more
    rapidly. At the time, the intent was to have a *slower* moving
    game. Ooops.

{Books}
Glen M. sent this:
    I recently purchased a book of games, but hesitate to mention them
    as they aren't 'break the ice' ones (and that's what you said you
    were looking for). Rather, they are described as games that a
    serious couple may find useful in becoming more playful, more
    intimate. They are about experimentation, pushing back boundaries.